EUROPEAN FAMILY THERAPY ASSOCIATION
CONNECTING FAMILY THERAPISTS AND TRAINERS
Marcelo Ceberio, (president of RELATES), Carlos Sluzki, Umberta Telfener, J-L Linares, Jacques Pluymaekers, Estelle D’Ambrosio, Raoul Medina
With the title “False appearances and plausibility”, IFATC, the French Institute that is organizing the Lyon Congress 2025 with us on behalf of Relates, has organized a very interesting dialogical congress the 5th and 6th of December 2024. There were many members of Relates (Marcelo Ceberio, the president of Relates, Juan Luis Linares the founder, Raul Medina and Yasna Badilla Briones, active members) plus members of IFATC and the three hosts, very hospitable and caring, Liliana and Reynaldo Perrone (defined by his friends the systemic Lacan because of the titles he chooses) and Estelle D’Ambrosio. Plus other EFTA and non EFTA members: Ivy Daure who spoke of couples and Abdessalem Yahyaoui, who discussed on a case.
Guest of honor was Carlos Sluzki, one of the fathers of Family therapy, that you will have the chance to meet in Lyon 2025.
www.efta-relates2025.com
SUBMISSIONS ARE NOW OPEN
Dear friends and colleagues, we are looking forward to meet you in Lyon.
As scientific and organizational committees we would like to share our vision with you.
We imagine a space where sharing becomes possible in a vibrant interactional and creative encounter. That’s why we have thought of many different formats, with the hope that you will submit a proposal and engage with us in this endeavor.
Our vision is to have dialogues and conversations instead of linear presentations. We wish to encourage and include active participants, along with those who prefer to be reflective listeners.
Proposals that use holistic, embodied and artistic methods that challenge us out of comfort zone to create new learning opportunities are welcomed.
1. Reflection from Umberta Telfener : As Social Justice and Systemic Thinking Task Force we met the first time at the NFTO in Sofia in June 2023, we created a whatsup group and exchanged some “fast” thoughts wondering what to deal with. Too many issues seemed important and focus was needed. Then life took over but right now we decided to start meeting and discussing again regularly. These words are just some reflections on the too many terrible and unjustified wars we are surrounded by.
Few days ago a client of mine posed this question: “Are we more violent compared to Medieval times?” I was stunned since I was questioning myself about the horrors of war in a time of enhanced consciousness: why does a civilized country become violent and destroy others? How can individuals de-humanize and do things that are despicable and they would judge as horrendous in times of peace? I started searching ….
2. Answer from Borislava Metcheva : I read the article carefully and so many thoughts are racing through my head… I am struggling a lot with the idea how we can make sense of what is going on globally so that the way we make sense of it help us see a path forward…
Here are some of my thoughts:
First of all, I am thinking about “conscious purpose” (Bateson) – for how long as societies we were enchanted by this premise and for how long this narrative of “achievement-improvement-more achievement-more ambition-and so on” organized our behavior at large scale…
3. Thoughts by Cinthe Lemmens : I read both of your contributions, Umberta and Borislava, my systemic colleagues, friends. How good is it not to feel alone, to belong to a large systemic community. Connectivity and exchange as an antidote to apathy, indifference, desensitization, numbness, hopelessness…
Reading your thoughts brings up new thoughts, memories.
It takes me back to the presentation of Lucie Hornova in Sofia, Bulgaria, our latest NFTO-meeting. She (and we) talked about hope and hopelessness, quoting K. Weingarten who says: ‘Hoping is not just a feeling or a noun, hope is also a verb that we can practice. We Do Hope.’
4. Thoughts by Petya Varcheva: The written by Umberta and Borislava is strongly resonating in me. Following the flow I feel, I would like to share some of my associations and reflections
I’m also struggling with the question – how we, as humans, have created such a context in which this terrifying violence became possible and so many of us became passive bystanders, supporting with their silence or openly justifying people killing people…
5. Thoughts by Charlie Azzopardi: On reflecting on contemporary history and the current world situation, and reading the interesting reflections of other colleagues, I could not stop myself from writing down some ideas about what is going on in terms of social justice. Of course having learned to think systemically I cannot but not view the contemporary complex political situation from this perspective and make sense of everything around me by connecting “everything to everything else” (Bateson).
Hello to everybody, I am Umberta Telfener, the new President of EFTA.
I am very honored to have received this assignment which I personally care very much about.
I am in EFTA since 1991, first as an individual and from 2010 representing the Milan Institute of Family Therapy (Luigi Boscolo and Gianfranco Cecchin). I become a member of the TIC Board in 2016 and from November 2020 I was its Chair. Now I will act as your President and intend to do my very best.
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